What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.” Oscar Wilde Okay – so you created a schedule, you wrote it all out, you felt good, empowered even, because you had a plan. Then, suddenly, you received a call that you had to pick up your. What seems to us as bitter trials are often blessings in disguise.” Oscar Wilde Okay – so you created a schedule, you wrote it all out, you felt good, empowered even, because you had a plan. Then, suddenly, you received a call that you had to pick up your.